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Does anyone have borderline personality disorder?

Anna1212
Anna1212

I think I have it.  I need to talk to someone else who understands what this is like.  I'm heading into a crisis.  thank you

Andromeda8
Andromeda8
I don't think that you have a borderline personality disorder, but that you have chronic depression from your self-perceived unworthiness. Now that you are no longer working in that blasted job anymore, here is the chance to apply to other casual jobs/temp jobs to boost your income whilst you decide what to do with the remaining 30-40 years. Perhaps a career counselor can help; think of this as returning to high school and unable to decide what career to embark upon. Adults can also consult a career counselor from those recruitment agencies - you may gain some ideas that are helpful for you in deciding your future. Best wishes, and take care.
silverlight
silverlight
Hello,Anna...

I am so sorry you are struggling right now.

I was diagnosed with BPD in my early 20's and it lasted until about my mid 30's.It is a very stigmatizing illness to have and comes with a lot of pain and turmoil.

But with a lot of work in therapy,and simply with getting older,I simply outgrew the diagnosis,thank God.

My pyschiatrist actually told me that it is rare for someone in their 40's or older to have the diagnosis,and I am so glad to be free of it.

I so hope this isn't something you are suffering from as it is such an incredibly trying disorder to have to live with.

Sending you support&peace,
sonnycamehome
sonnycamehome
Generally, going down the rabbit hole of diagnosing yourself for any physical or mental illness can be pretty scary. It's pretty easy to convince yourself you have just about anything when you "Dr. Google"

Borderline personality is a serious disorder that requires an official diagnosis and appropriate attention if you actually have the disorder. It would be wise to see an MD - either a psychiatrist or psychologist who can actually diagnose and help treat you moving forward.

Until you can move forward with proper diagnostics, take some deep breaths. Any diagnosis requires some nuanced and professional care, so until then try not to jump to conclusions.