I have heard that the Grief Share groups are super helpful after a huge loss like our mom or dad or spouse. My friend finally went 9 months after her husband died and it really helped her turn her mind around. Naturally, we love someone and it sort of slays us for a while emotionally. We miss them, we love them, our worlds change.

It takes time to heal from the pain of loss. Let your tears fall freely to wash the pain away and clear your eyes to the new possibilities ahead <3

I am so very sorry for your loss

Grief is a process and it does take time

I agree that real life support groups might be a good source of support...xo

I'll have to look into grief support group. I'm pretty sure where I live there's none. It truly sucks here.

China a funeral home will know about grief groups
I think they're pretty much everywhere as it's something we all have to deal with sadly
Big hug sweetie...xo

Thanks, suncloud,, I'll ask, but I doubt it where I live. Yes, unfortunately it sucks here, wish I could afford to move to where there's better care and availability to supportive groups.

Not much to offer here where I live. It sucks, but I'll ask. I wish could afford to move

China, there are Grief Share groups and other similar ones online. We have to sometimes get out of our comfort zones (yes, me too). Do something to help yourself. Grief is one thing, the loss. And depression is another thing. Two at once is often more difficult to deal with. The idea of "closure" that one day we won't feel the loss is a myth. Closure is a myth. We humans have memories and feelings and it shows your deep love for your mom that you feel this loss. You can do something or journal something about your mom and your love for her, plant flowers, etc. I believe we can talk to our deceased loved ones and they hear us in spirit form. So I sometimes talk to mine.