Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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lovemyflowers 03/24/2013

I am a burden ..I'm trying to work but I can't concentrate. My usually understanding husband does not understand the depths of my despair . he says my meds are pooping out. Doesn't the long hours maybe have something to find with it. Is there really a god who answers prayers . I want til lie down and die. I want to not be a burden anymore. I just want dine love and understanding instead of non committal answers. I don't know how to face tomorrow

WallyBear 03/25/2013

You Are NOT A Burden Sweetheart!!!
You Are A Beautiful, Wonderful Person.

It Sounds Like Your Husband Loves You Very Much.
I'm Sure It Hurts Him To See You In So Much Pain.

Please, Don't Give Up.
Sending Lots And Lots Of Hope.
And ((((((HUGS))))))

deleted_user 03/25/2013

We have been there, feeling the same, but it's not true, you are not a burden, you are not! But when we are in a dark place that pain stop us from thinking clear, we feel outcasted, like no one understand, but you are not alone, you have your husband and you have a lot of people here that is willing to talk to you adn try to help you.
Tomorrow seems so distant and impossible, sometimes we need to take it day by day, you are strong.

mollgirl 03/25/2013

You are not a burden. I am sorry you feel so bad. I understand though. My husband doesn't understand depression either and it makes things harder. Hugs and I hope you are feeling better soon.

deleted_user 03/25/2013

One of the side effects of Prozac is "Having Thoughts of Suicide". If you are on Prozac please call your doctor immediately and report this.

lovemyflowers 03/25/2013

Thank each and everyone of you. I couldn't have made it without your support. Still couldnt work . crying. Can't concentrate. Dr is upping my meds. Exhausted and going to bed. You guys dont realize how much you helped me

lovemyflowers 03/25/2013

Hugs back to everyone as I didn't realize you can't give hugs unless you are friends

mollgirl 03/26/2013

I hope you are feeling better.Hugs.

deleted_user 03/26/2013

I have been feeling the exact same way. It is so demeaning and soul-crushing to feel this way and be unable to do anything about it. I am so sorry you are feeling this way. Remember that this too shall pass. Hold on and weather the storm dear. Hugs....Mishka

AK32 03/27/2013

I can surely identify with those feelings. It is so hard when our loved ones don't understand. It's almost impossible to expect them to. I have found it VERY helpful to reach out to the people on here as they are the only ones who really understand what you are experiencing.
I definitely have had that feeling like god doesnt answer my prayers. In my deepest, darkest hours, I have prayed with the depths of my soul for comfort, and have been left wanting. That is why I left the (Mormon) church.
Please keep reaching out to your friends here, and we will support you.

gramybear 03/27/2013

You are not a burden honey, please don't think that. Are you seeing a therapist? Could your husband go to an appointment with you? Maybe it's time for a med change? There are going to be days when your husband may have a bit of a problem dealing with it all, it may get a little overwhelming for him, just as it gets for us. Your husband loves you and he is going to help you face tomorrow, and the next day.
Hugs GramyBear

deleted_user 07/22/2013

Have you ruled out being bipolar type 1 or 2? I took prozac and flipped out. It wasn't until years later that I found out I was bipolar type II. I am now on a mood stabilizer as anti-depressants alone do more harm than good with bipolar people.

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