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ShineBright86
ShineBright86

So I have no clue why but EVERY relationship I am in... almost anyway... I tend to think that person is 'the one'...i take things fast... I am super sure about our future one minute and the next, second thoughts.



It's only been a couple months and since say one (silly I know).. I felt he was Mr right. Like with no doubt. Now I am questioning it. Why does my mind do this?? :( anyone relate?

Restful
Restful
It’s natural to feel exhilaration at first in a relationship and then wonder if it’s the right thing shortly afterwards. It’s important that you are honest about how you’re feeling with the other person. If you’re not clear with each other, someone will inevitably end up hurt.
ShineBright86
ShineBright86
Restful, yes you are right. I mean, there are things about him that truly bother me..i.did not see it at first. He doesn't talk to my 12 yr old son, he plays video games and is on his computer when he's not working. He never compliments me.
Ghostdancer
Ghostdancer
The word “ship” is sort of a common denominator in the idea of The One. Progress should be “friendship” first and throughout any progress to “relationship” and then finally that The 1 name which if both are so inclined then “courtship” to that final make ready for big change in lives to “marriageship”. All have to be tight and everything secure so that “the ship” stays afloat with no lives lost in the launching.
ShineBright86
ShineBright86
Ghostdancer, you are right
rejoice1210
rejoice1210
Hi- when I had my first boyfriend, I also thought he was meant for me. We were happy and we like each other but after 2 years, we broke up. I think it’s normal to think that way because we like the person. After my first boyfriend, I met another guy, we became friends for 5 years then we became boyfriends for another 5 years and then we got married. Because we started as friends and we know each other well, it made our marriage better.

I hope things will work out for you and you will have your heart’s desires. I will be praying for you. Update us please. Thank you for sharing.
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