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What do you do when you just absolutely think you are tired of hanging out with someone? From time to time I've gotten annoyed with her, but I just am at the point where I feel like I'm done with her. It was fine when we were hanging out with other people, but just being with her one on one is too much for me.
On our way up to our day trip today, all she did was just bash and bash on teachers. And I am one. She had nothing nice to say about them, that she thought they were entitled and earned way more than they deserved and I was getting angrier and angrier as I had a really terrible week where one of my students got violent, I have such stressful days and I never call my friends to talk about them as I know it's a drain, but she just went on saying that we basically do so little and how dare we make more than her. I was getting angrier and angrier and I could feel my face turning bright red. I finally said I am done with this topic.
When we got to the venue, it turned out to be a guided tour, which was really boring. I thought it was going to be a hike as we usually get out and exert ourselves. Instead, it was just a man talking and a lot of standing around. The other woman and I said that we wanted to hike and that we would meet her by the parking lot when it was done if she wanted to take the tour, we were not interested in the tour. She told us no that we couldn't, that we were abandoning her if we left her on the tour, I didn't really think it was that big of a deal, we would just meet her when she got back. I didn't like being told what to do and when and where and how or told no that I HAD to stay and go on this tour. I was even more angry then.
Then, she started to argue about gas. So ridiculous. My tank is about 24.00 dollars, so for three people it's like eight dollars per person to fill it up, and then she started to argue and argue and argue about this. The deal is it's full when we leave town, and then on the way back we fill it up when it gets empty. I said that it was full when leaving town, no need to fill up when leaving. She insisted that we go to the gas station anyway-even though it was full-to fill it up. Like yeah I am going to gyp her on gas. Then we were almost back in town and I was really almost out of gas. The tank reallly started to get empty and it was time to fill up and she argued and complained about that, that she did not want to fill it up. I just could not believe it. I'd agreed to drive as a favor and here she was arguing over every nickel and time of gas money, it wasn't that big of a deal. Frankly by the time the whole thing was over I just thought she was a massive B**** and I'm really starting to hate her.
All of us have hung out for a long time, for several years and I'm wondering if people are starting to drift off because of her, she's gotten into fights with some people just for being like this and now I'm not sure I can deal with it any more. At times when we've been out to dinner, seems like she's been mean to the waitstaff I just can't put up with it anymore.
