I think you need to listen to your heart on this one. Depression can suck the joy out of life, so if you wait for your depression to get sorted out, it may be too late to make your best decision about your boy friend.

that's the thing i don't know what my hearts saying. i was lonely & very unhappy before i met him. am scared if i do leave him that i will still be unhappy

When I had my first anxiety/depression experience a few months ago I felt like a completely different person. I was convinced all bad things were going to happen. I told myself my boyfriend wasn't happy with me, that I was bored with life, that he would want someone else and not me. I was convinced I needed to end things before he ended them. My mom told me not to make any drastic decisions when I'm in that anxious state of mind so I listened to her and worked through it. When I'm not having anxiety I am so happy and I wonder why I ever questioned things in our relationship. When my anxiety kicks in I start to worry a little about us and just about everything else in life. I would suggest not making and drastic decisions when you're depressed. Wouldn't you hate to break up with a great person just because of this awful state of mind that you're in? I would have been devastated if I broke up with my boyfriend when I was going through all that anxiety because when I don't have it I know everything is great between us.

Thank you so much for your reply kenznoel. i know the answer will come to me clearer when i get rid of this spell of depression so i think you are right that i should wait. xx

Feeling so bad got depression & anxiety don't know what to do. Me & my bf had a chat & decided 2 have a few days apart so I can clear my head but I don't want to hurt him & I can't see what I want. I hate feeling like this like being stuck what if I don't want his back & he says he loves me & misses me. Lost & alone