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At this point I'm just looking for somewhere to write. I was just dumped from a two year relationship via email. We had been struggling but over the past month I thought things were going better. It was hard to find a common ground with him. He tried breaking up the week before but I begged him and he said we could keep trying. The next day we had an amazing night together. He then went away for a week on a family trip. I have him his space and he said I was doing a good job. He made plans to see me the night he returned for dinner. The morning of his flight to return we decided on a time for dinner. A few hours before we were supposed to meet up he send la me and email breaking up with me. He said he will contact me in a couple of weeks and I shouldn't try contacting him at the moment.
How can someone treat someone they care about like this??????? The whole time he was gone he was making plans and telling me all these things that now don't make any sense. I have no answers and i am struggling. The whole trip he old me he cared about me and he said we could make things work. I have been devastated. I've barely ate the last few days and I just sit around and cry. I'm so sad. I have sent him so many emails apologizing for our differences and asking for the rest of my things. I can't function. I feel like I'm dead. I need closure and my questions answered. How do I go on from here?????
How can someone treat someone they care about like this??????? The whole time he was gone he was making plans and telling me all these things that now don't make any sense. I have no answers and i am struggling. The whole trip he old me he cared about me and he said we could make things work. I have been devastated. I've barely ate the last few days and I just sit around and cry. I'm so sad. I have sent him so many emails apologizing for our differences and asking for the rest of my things. I can't function. I feel like I'm dead. I need closure and my questions answered. How do I go on from here?????
All I can think of is that something happened on that trip.
I do believe that he owes you something, an explanation at the very least. He may not be able to fully express it, not to the point that you get the closure you want.
As for your things, by all means he should give you access to them.
Gentle hugs
it's a hard time and I've been there; and time is your only friend. My heart goes out to you.
The best way to have a new romance is to focus on yourself and come to peace with YOU!
Yes, that is one of those things that is much easier said than done. I do know that one way to do this is to get out there and do things for yourself. Things that you want to do. Classes are a good way to focus on you; find something you want to do and take a class. Painting, cooking, woodworking, SCUBA diving, flower arranging, even welding!
Continuing hugs
GBU
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