Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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alethia 10/05/2009

I am depressed because I have been going to my doctor for some years now and my problem has not changed. I trying to find a new doctor who can help me with my problem of feeling stuck and spinning my wheels not to go anywhere. My family is not supportive they don't call or talk to me they just go on with their lives and don't include me. I am very lonely and to top it all off I have a teenage son that is constantly in trouble with school,wanting to use drugs, keeping up with friends you name it. My weekend are just like weekdays I spend it alone in the house bored. Please give me some advice.

deleted_user 10/05/2009

Well, if you are alone in the house and bored...go out and do something! Find a physical support group that you can go to and meet people. Take your son out for coffee and just catch up. Being a part of his life can help him realize that you are there for him to talk to and you two can work out his problems.

As for feeling stuck...I have been in the same boat for a year now. I have been taking steps to get out. I'm looking for different outlets. I've joined a few groups and I'm in school. I have my regular job, but I'm following my passions instead of my obligations...and what do ya know...I'm a scientist, but I edited a poetry book that came out in August.

Just relax and take one problem at a time. Pick one thing that you want to change first and start with that. And don't forget, give yourself permission to change and get out of this rut you feel that you are in.

Hearts and Good Luck
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alethia 10/05/2009

Thank you for your advice. I am going to start attending a computer class soon. As for joining a physical support group what do you mean a gym or what. I can't walk that well either but I try to get out when I feel not so depressed. As for my son he is in his on world we hardly even talk for more than 2hrs here and there he's on his cellphone or with his friends. I can't keep him locked up or punish him if he cares not to communicate like I want him to. Seems like we are growing apart.

deleted_user 10/05/2009

Seems like your son is just going through that rebellious phase. Most of us guys experience that sometime in our youth. I feel guilty for alot of the stress i caused my mom during that time but didnt realize it til i got alittle older. Just let him know you that you know hes got his life with his friends but your his mother, you love him, and it hurts to see him geting distant. He might not respond the way you would like.. but it will give him something to think about. Good luck and hope all is well

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