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I have a lot of things going on in my life right now, most of which I am strong enough to handle/finish, but the point is: Im very, very close to my family and one thing keeps hi-jacking my mind. My brother has Adult ADHD and my parents keep talking about putting him in an Adult Group Home for mentally/physically handicapped adults. The thing is, I've seen how the staff treats their clients (people) there, and I don't want my brother treated like crap (literally). Any tips on how to clear my mind from everything and anything, just for one day? I have GED classes all week, and I can't and won't be able to focus on those, unless I can control my head, and clear my mind. Ty
Can you ask your parents to wait on making any decisions until you get this stress filled week behind you?
Do you feel like you really know where your parents are coming from with respect to how they arrived at the decision to talk about putting him in a home? I know a few parents who have had discussions about putting one of their children in a group home. (It tears them apart, and they have never taken it lightly.) The more you know the background, your brother's diagnosis and his future capabilities and options the more you will be able to come to terms with their discussions and final decision.
It may help you to accept that they are the ones making the decision. But on the other hand, it is likely you who will be responsible for monitoring him when your parents are too old or have passed away.
Give yourself permission to put this brother issue on the back burner for this week.
Gentle hugs