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i put on alot of weight and im suppose to go get a gastric bypass surgery but tillthen i wanna put off sex and men cause all i am doing is getting hurt by them
Did you put on weight recently? Was it because of something emotional? You might want to work through those emotions before making a decision about surgery. I'm also wondering how bad is this weight problem? Could it be handled with a lifestyle change? I'm not trying to guide your decision, I just think it matters.
I'm not sure having sex should really be that connected to your weight... it should be connected to how well you're doing emotionally. When you have a healthy relationship with yourself (no matter your weight) is when you can have a healthy relationship with someone else. I hope you can love yourself no matter what your weight is. Maybe you will still get surgery, but it needs to be a logical decision, and usually surgery should be a last resort.
As far as putting off sex, that's a great idea while you work out your other issues. What advice are you looking for? Having sex, or not, is your decision and you have every right to feel that way. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
I hope you can work out your emotional issues, especially with getting hurt by men. Our society has a lot of fucked up ideas about women in relationships, and women who should be sexually active, and women who should be skinny. Please make sure your decisions come from you and are in your best interest. Love yourself! I hope this helps! Much love for you dear <3