I want to say thank you for the two caring responses I got to "recovering from a breakup". Kayleigh5 and n2thesea, both of your responses were so warm and very insightful. Often times you know what the truth is but just need that outside reinforcement. But it also gave me realities I had missed; He probably DOES know how lonely I am and takes advantage of it. And I did read my own words objectively as suggested and can tell I allowed myself to be put in a vulnerable position. I am and will continue to hurt for a while but thinking of things in more practical terms will Im sure make the "recovery" period much much shorter. Your supportive words were delicate yet poinient. It meant so much to me and I thank you. signed, Stella gon get ha groove back!.....