Welcome! This is a great group and glad to see you are reaching out. I'm not sure what has taken place, but you're not an idiot. Perhaps knowing a bit more of what is making you feel horrible would help us see how we can help. You will find the support here. There are a lot of caring people.

Welcome to our wonderful group. How can we help you not feel so terrible?
GB

Hello and welcome! I'm new here too, but from what I've seen so far, this is a great group.

Welcome, sorry you are feeling so bad, you can message me anytime

Welcome, I do not quite understand your post, it says you are new here this time around?
I hope that you may find ease to what is bothering you, best wishes and warmest hugs.

I'm kind of confused too . You are new here this time around?

Maybe you can tell us all what you are going through so we can better know how to support you.


Peace.

LMT

I have been a member on DS before. I just lot my previous email, so I had to set up a new email, which forced to have to make a new account. If that makes sense. This is causing me such anxiety, im crying as Im typing. I have a lot of stuff going on but the main crap affecting my life is BF issues, then my mother is very very sick and Im about to have to force her into treatment, she is a hoarder. I have bi-polar, and a mood disorder, so im very up and down, don't make sense a lot of times. I just need a lot of help. thanks for responding, it really means alot

You have definitely come to the right place. There are people here of all walks of life in all different situations. I am almost certain that you can find what you need here

Welcome and that been said I have to warn you that everyone in here is very friendly' specially uhm... All of them

Hello, Ms. Starzz, Forgive me for speaking the obvious.

You are up against a batch of huge challenges. I can only recommend taking one thing at a time as it presents itself.

BF troubles.
Hoarding Mother
BP/mood disorder

Certainly any one of these aggravates the other. That is a lot of intimidation on one person and I can imagine how you feel and the condition you are in.

Basically, I think the best thing for you is a 'best friend' .. someone who understands you need help and can give it. From watching the 'hoarding' series on TV, each episode featured a behavioral professional who was heavily involved in the solution. I don't think the situation could be resolved without one.

I just think you need a source of support beyond what this group can provide .... someone 'right next to you' so to speak.

Meantime, .. we will CERTAINLY do for you what we can.

Don't worry ... you will handle all this ... regardless of how much 'help' you can gather, but you do deserve a call for help.

I think you've been given good advice, especially what WV had said about the hoarder.

I live with one and the only way that would change would be IF I could get a professional like the one on the tv show involved. What was once a beautiful home now belongs on that series:(
That' simply not an option for me though.

Do you see anyone to help with your bi-polar and mood disorder? If not, I gently suggest you look into that.

There are so many good, kind, empathetic folks here, I'm sure you'll get much help from all of them.

Try to take one thing at time instead of trying to tackle them all at once.

Again, as WV said, it would be good if you had someone right there with you, obviously,
someone you can trust.

Peace.....

Hi,
I am kaliex and I just returned to this group after being gone a long time. I remember this being a good support group and you can really tell other's how you are feeling, since we all have depression, bi-polar or other illness'.
I look forward to getting to know others, help others, and share experiences. Thanks, and Remember One Day at a Time.

Kaliex xx