Depression Support Group

Depression is a real and debilitating condition that is often misunderstood by family and friends. Its meaning can range from a prolonged period of sadness to an actual mental illness with specific symptoms. Find and share experiences with others who are going through the same struggles.

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Bamamom214 02/06/2011

I am living in the house of one of my friends and her husband. At the moment my 3 teenage daughters live with me. They are 17,16 and 16. The husband of my friend is 50 yo. He tried to get me to go out with him but I wouldn't so now hes flirting with my twin daughters. I don't know what to do. Anyone have any advice.

deleted_user 02/06/2011

Move, tell your friend why.

Bamamom214 02/06/2011

She would never believe me over her husband

deleted_user 02/06/2011

,, you'd still be out and your kids are your responsibility.

beachside 02/06/2011

The safety and protection of your children come before and above anything else. I know how much you love and care about them.

You need to move and get them away from that man and that home.
Whatever it takes to protect them, do.

((((((((((( hugs)))))))))))

lizaradley 02/06/2011

I don't think you need to tell them what happened, just get out of there as soon as you are able. It's about keeping your daughters safe. I hope that everything works out ok. I'm glad you're seeking advice. You can make it through this!

Bamamom214 02/06/2011

I am looking for somewhere else to go...I am trying to get them out of here asap...In fact they sleep with me now

deleted_user 02/06/2011

no one should ask u out if they are married. i would move now. we are talking about children here.

WanderingVet 02/07/2011

protect your children at all costs. Then .. work to change the situation .. it will take a plan .. and a little time. Complex problems take a bit of time to solve. First .. protect those children .. then build a plan .. the solution will come.

Bamamom214 02/08/2011

thanks im trying to get out asap

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