I hear ya friend. I am so in love with someone who is there..when it's okay for him. We are great. It's the guys that we meet. I have been chasing this guy for 10 years...he has come around more than he ever did before..so I am happy about that..but I have learned..through him..after all of these years thinking it was me..that HE has his own issues. So..maybe the people that are you are getting involved in have their own issues too. It can't all be you. Are you a nice person? Are you honest? Then...you are who you like...they have the issues hon. I know it's so hard because I
know for sure that I want someone to love me for me but maybe they are just not right for us..because of their own stuff. We will find our men. Ugh, I say this..but I know it's so hard sometimes to believe it. All you can do is the best that you can do. You can only be YOU. If he doesn't like you..then it's okay cause someone else will. You have to like yourself (I hate hearing that from people, but it's true). And if he is a liar...then good riddens. HE definitely has issues. It's not you. I am here if you want to talk.

Yep, what kbr said - good riddens to him!

I have things I learn over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over and over again and again and again ............... I feel you pain.

I think I'm making cat sick with all my crying =(

Thank you everyone tho.
HUGS

I love you, and I have replied to your journal.

But I will say this - rejection hurts, no matter if it's a boy, a friend, a family member, a job, etc etc...

I feel your pain, and it makes me sad to see you this upset because I know FOR A FACT that you are wonderful, and a beautiful person inside and out. That is the truth, and it is a darn shame (and a mystery!) that anyone could pass you up. That's how I feel about it!

I suspect someone amazing will come along when you least expect it, but for now, dry your eyes and hug your kitty! Focus on things that make you happy... like your amazing art :)

Big hugs, you are lovely and deserve someone who will adore you for the wonderful lady that you are!

You are a person of character and those who lie are not. It is so easy for them to lie. It's like breathing for them. It comes natural.
I consider myself a person of character, educated, intelligent, and have much to offer to another in a relationship. Yet men chose to pursue the ignorant little girls. It is their mental issues which is still no excuse for their behavior, but the fact is it's them...not you or I or any good woman. We go beyond the greatness they can't handle or deal with. That wonderful man is out there for you...and when he shows up he will appreciate how wonderful you are. That is what a real man does.

Maybe it's time to take a look at yourself. The same thing always happened to me. I was the one who for whatever reasons was getting involved with men who in one way or another would end up hurting me. Emotionally, physically...& so on.
Take time to just focus on yourself & your needs. When you become a more stable, focused, confident person then it's most likely you will want the same out of a partner.
:-)

Oh...You're NOT stupid!!!!!

I feel your pain!!!