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What is it about me that causes others to argue with my costantly. I say something, even based on opinion and not fact and people tell me Im wrong.
People come at me with out of date info and argue with me.
I just want to know what the fuck it is about me that causes this because I am getting fucking pissed off with it.
More often than not, people miss the point and hit me with nonsense in return.
I know I can be spikey and reactive but no matter how hard I try, someone always finds a way to come at me.
People come at me with out of date info and argue with me.
I just want to know what the fuck it is about me that causes this because I am getting fucking pissed off with it.
More often than not, people miss the point and hit me with nonsense in return.
I know I can be spikey and reactive but no matter how hard I try, someone always finds a way to come at me.
I echo L's sentiment, Xs a thousand. Don't let the turds get to you. We knows you're awesome.
Sometimes its my friends that do this and I find myself wondering if they do it to me just to wind me up, to get a reaction.
Probably overthinking it but 3 times since monday this has happened. One a day, solid averages there!
I think I may practice ignorance from now on. Just not say a thing in response. Look, smile and nod.
*If you say so*
It's even more sarcastic if you smile when you say it x
Should I be practicing in the mirror? I want to get it down tight!
I think I need to learn when to speak and when to stay silent. Sometimes a withering look is enough
maybe body language....or attitude....
These things are not really visible online..or maybe people are jealous or have their own issues. There's a lot of the other humans not really worth spending 2 minutes on....
sorry, no help. (((hugs)))
Not advocating being a dick to nice people...but there's times, I tell ya...
If somebody isn't getting what you're saying, or they just want to argue, that's their problem. You might come off (unconsciously) as argumentative yourself, which provokes others. I've been told I come off as bitchy, which I will never understand, but what can you do?
The people who know you, know you, and that's what counts. Screw the rest if they're gonna argue and make assumptions based on nothing.
Peace to you.