If you feel you should then go right ahead and tell her. This is a big step if you do tell her everything.

I know that this may sound rude, but a lot of the kids that are your age are immature. You are not because you have been dealing with a lot and know how bad the world can really be. I told a close friend of mine about my ra*e when I was about your age, a little younger, and she just accepted the news and shrugged it off. It was good to say it, but I wanted something more from her like to talk about it and stuff. I learned that you can't rely on your friends as therapists. Really make sure that she is close enough to you that she will not leak this information to anyone! But don't expect that she will want to talk about it because things like that make people uncomfortable and they just dismiss it. If you are not in therapy or counceling I suggest that you begin to do so because no one should have to go through these things alone without talking about it. If you need I am here for you (((HUGS)))

if this is a friend you can truly trust and you've known for some time, I think that it would be ok to tell her. But, you have to really be sure that you're ready to tell her and you think that she's mature enough to hear what you have to say. I completely agree with badkitty because I've told my friends about some serious things and what they did was just shake it off and go back to their own problems. you'll never know for sure until you talk to her, but try to picture how she'd react by past experiences with her if you guys have had any serious talks before. I hope this helps and good luck!

just make sure u will allows be friends, i told some friends i shouldnt have and i shouldve been more careful, think about if shed really be there for u and not just blow it off, hope it works for ya if u do:)

if you feel that your friend is as mature as you to understand this and you feel that you could place this on her shoulders in a way, then go ahead. i don't know if she would react the same way my best friend did. he makes it his mission to make sure i'm okay all the time and i dont hurt myself. i hope everything goes okay.

thanks everyone
this is why i was confused, i want to tell her but i dont think shes mature enough
so i guess i wont but theres this friend of mine that moved to texas and we are so so so close but i cant talk to her and i realize thats the one person i want to talk to about it
but i cant
see ive talked to people on DS about it but it just isnt enough, i need a hug from my friend saying "its okay, everythings gonna be okay"
and being there for me when i break down
but i dont have that here so it really sucks
thanks for all ur help though
and sorry about rambling

:( i hope you find that someone to talk to about everything in person