Depression Supporters Support Group
This community is dedicated to spouses, children, relatives, co-workers and others who are actively supporting someone suffering from depression or other serious mental illness. Depression can bring about intense sadness, melancholia or despair that has advanced to the point of being disruptive, which can have a grave impact on the ability of others trying to help.
He decided to leave me and not put me through this, to stay with me and fight it to save us and our love, to sell what he has to have cash to make him happy for a day, to sit in bed and cry it out, to make me crazy!
Literally he broke up with me 6 times a couple nights ago. He says I don't deserve this... He's right NO ONE deserves this. But we want to help them through it and to be with them. So we are together (we didn't actually break up he just mentioned it 6 different times). He decided he wante chocolate, then burritos, then chocolate, then donuts, then chips, then chocolatr... It kept going. He changed his mind over an over. I'm just going with the flow. I keep putting on my shoes and picking up my purse an then settling in again.
Does anyone else go through this with their depressive? I feel like an idiot often times for just going with the flow. I know it's good for him that I'm here for him. But my goodness... I would love peace
Literally he broke up with me 6 times a couple nights ago. He says I don't deserve this... He's right NO ONE deserves this. But we want to help them through it and to be with them. So we are together (we didn't actually break up he just mentioned it 6 different times). He decided he wante chocolate, then burritos, then chocolate, then donuts, then chips, then chocolatr... It kept going. He changed his mind over an over. I'm just going with the flow. I keep putting on my shoes and picking up my purse an then settling in again.
Does anyone else go through this with their depressive? I feel like an idiot often times for just going with the flow. I know it's good for him that I'm here for him. But my goodness... I would love peace
Yes...over the last 2 days again...he also has adhd and decided he didn't need to take adderall....WHAT??????? well over these last 2 days I drew a big giant line in the sand....and meant it and do mean it...he took the pill and within a half hour was back....do you think your guy might have something else along with depression???? Hugs to you
I just don't want him to be so sad.