Dementia Support Group
Dementia is the progressive decline in cognitive function due to damage or disease in the brain beyond what might be expected from normal aging. Particularly affected areas may be memory, attention, language and problem solving, although particularly in the later stages of the condition, affected persons may be disoriented in time, place and person (not knowing who they...
Well, today was the day that we had to hand back his driver's license and get an ID card in return. He is VERY angry about it as I knew he would be. I haven't let him drive in months and he was ok with that as long as he had a driver's license in his pocket but being "told" by some authorities that he CAN'T drive is something altogether different for him. I just gave him one of his 'calm down' pills. Also, we have had an offer on his car so that is probably a double whammy for him. The lady at the DMV told that I would be surprised to know how many people come in with ALZ and demand that they get their license back, drive anyway, demand to get a behind the wheel test, etc.
I too am dealing with my Mom's reaction to the end of her driving days. Mom has always been very independent especially since my father died over 25 years ago. The loss of driving really signaled the end of that level of independence. It was a hard decision but I knew she shouldn't have been behind the wheel since her symptoms have progressed abit since diagnosis. At times Mom "understands" the reasons and at others she is very angry with me.. calls and demands the return of her car keys ending up by hanging up on me. This usually happens once a week. Her license is up for renewal next week and I hate to bring up the need for a state ID instead of the license.
Her car is still in the drive. I don't know if that is a reminder of the situation? I feel better with it there as she is still in her own home and the house looks more occupied with the car there. Also she is likely to call the police and report it stolen if we remove it to my home!!! Well it would be an experience being arrested for auto theft!!!! Trying to keep my sense of humor here!
Keep your chin up!
Highlandgirl ;)
Like the previous poster said "Keep your chin up" this too shall pass...
Lisa