I'm revising this due to the incompatibility of my word program.

I've been dating a teacher for 1 yr. In the beginning I saw numerous red flags, and came to the realization that this relationship would never reach the next level (marriage). However because she was much younger, beautiful, good sex, and said the right things, I overlooked all the serious red flags. The other day she stated that she fell out of love. Amazing !! my self-esteem was hurt, and I tried to understand why I felt this way because in all reality she was an unstable person, and I had overlooked this dysfunction, even as I look back I'm embarrassed to have been hooked into the dysfunction, because after my divorce I vowed to never be in an unhealthy relationship. A good friend provided me a book entitled "Date or Soulmate", which really opened my eyes to healthy dating. I would recommend this book to anyone prior to dating.