Hi. I founded this group tonight in a bout of insomnia about my life and my ex. We are friends on Facebook and I check his page throughout the day and to see when he logs in. I live 13 hours away now. He dumped me via text while I was on vacation. It was off and on and we have tried to remain friends. I could call him if I wanted, but I want him to think I have moved on. I'm 44 and I have an increasingly hard time getting over relationships. I have chronic feelings of not being good enough and I wang to know if he's seeing someone else. So. I keep checking for evidence or patterns or something. Sometimes I don't even know why.
Because you are just still attached and its something you just cant get rid of alone. You need to get out and explore new people and new adventures that awaits for you, You are still so young go out and find new people and spend time with them. It helps you get over the break up you had. He wasnt worth your time anyways because you are better than that. Lets be honest here :)