i think we're taught to feel guilty. many people use it in order to control us. that is my experience anyway. i think many of us who have an underfuctioning ego also overcompensate with an overactive superego which imposes guilt on us which isn't always appropriate.
My 6mo twin DD's are EBF and just started rice cereal on the first. Everything has been going fine except this morning one of them had a diaper rash (lots of redness around her anus). I read this as one of the signs of an allergy. BUT I did just buy a different brand diaper yesterday (which they have used randomly before w/no issues). Do you think its the cereal or the diaper? Im ready to start...
Or are beliefs?
Something else?
I really don't know.