Coming Out Support Group

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Not sure if lesbian

kailikespie
kailikespie

Im a 15 year old female. I have crushes who are male, but for some reason, I just feel... sexually attracted, I guess is the word, to girls. I want to get married, and have children, and everything like that. But, I want to have a relationship with another female. I know that it doesn't really fit with the "Coming Out" group, but it's the only group for Lesbian and Gay. What I'm asking for help with, is just someone to talk to this about, someone to help me with it. 

RobertH
RobertH
I remember being in a similar place when I was your age. For a lot of reasons, I wasn't able to accept that truth for a very long time. One of the things I was afraid of losing was the opportunity to get married and raise a family.

Sexual attraction is complicated and simple all at the same time... and that can be scary and confusing. Feel free to reach out to me if I can be of any help to you. No judgments here... and no advice unless you ask for it.
Evie123
Evie123
I'm 16 and this is pretty much exactly me. I've thought about the family thing but you could always adopt. If you wanted to carry a baby you could go to a sperm bank or adopt an embryo. In the long run you'll be a lot happier because you'll be married to someone you love. At least that's my opinion.