I went through this for years. When I was 16, I started questioning my sexuality but I didn't want to be different. I just wanted to be a normal teenage girl. After I graduated high school, my best friend told me she had strong feelings for me and I shut her down right away. I feel bad cuz i broke her heart. We were really close and I was confused about my feelings towards her but I kept telling myself "you can't be gay".
About a year later, when I was 19, I admitted to myself that I did like girls but convinced myself that I liked guys too. The past couple years I've tried to force myself to date guys but I just couldn't do it. I bro out with guys...hard. Like every guy that I meet. He could be totally into me and I wouldn't have a clue. I've never felt sexually attracted to guys, ever. And I've only recently accepted tht about myself. I told my dad I was gay when I was 20 and he was like "finally you admit it!" lol apparently he knew when i was like 8.
Sorry I got off track, but the point is there's no need to label yourself. Sexuality is meant to be fluid in my opinion. Date girls if you wanna date girls. If you aren't 100% comfortable with that its ok, I wasn't at first either. Some people will give you weird looks but the people that matter will have your back. Feel free to message me anytime if you need someone to talk to <3

I have to agree with the above. don't worry so much about are you lesbian, bi, a purple people eater, or a squirrel. Be you, love who you love, the word is not going to define you in any way so there is no point in having it, what will define you is action. your love for your partner that you choose and who chooses you. sexuality is a spectrum, not 2 points so don't try to make it that way, you will only paint yourself into a box and then fight against the box. If you are attracted to a woman and she is attracted to you, great go with it, see what you think, you may try it and find that you don't really like it that much and go back, or you may find that you absolutely love it. You wont know until you try and until then there really is no label that you can attach to you other than human. I will tell you that how men and women approach relationships and sex is completely different. As such you may find that what you want is a less manly man or a more dominant woman. Experiment.