Coming Out Support Group

This community is dedicated to the challenges that gay men and lesbian women face, both between the partners in a relationship and from other influences (family, society, etc.). Find support and talk to others who may be facing the same challenges, and share your experience.

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confusionlife 05/03/2008

Being attracted to girls isn't why i think i'm gay; i think i am gay because some girls just aren't appealing to me, its like i look at them and think to my self there not very hot or there personality is boring. And when i see a really cute girl i like to study her features which may make me seem like a stocker but its just this crazy GIRL obsession. HELP ME!!!

deleted_user 05/04/2008

i've never thought about it that way. but you're sorta right.
and as long as you don't cross any lines, then studying a person isn't wrong.
observation is how you learn.

confusionlife 05/04/2008

well that sort of not what i mean its like when i see a really cute girl me eyes are like glued to her and my mouth drops to the floor and i have trouble acting like myself around her

deleted_user 05/05/2008

same reaction for a lot of people.
i know that when i'm around someone who i think is REALLY hot, i have trouble speaking. lol. it's just normal.

deleted_user 05/13/2008

hey! same thing happens to me (to many people too). when i see or meet a girl who i'm attracted too, i'll do anything cute, cool, etc. so that she notice me :D (but never putting away the real me) and it has worked but it always ends she been straight lol and us been friends ;o] yeah my gaydar is fucked lol

confusionlife 05/20/2008

lolz, i think mine is broken too

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