I've been doing a lot of research & soul searching since my husband left 4 months ago. I now believe we are both codepent. He comes from divorce, alcoholism & what I believe is abandonment (boarding school at a young age). I come from an intact yet very dysfunctional family with sexual abuse & emotional unavailability. I have control & manipulation issues. He holds everything in & wont stand up for himself...he's a peacekeeper. Does anyone think that 2 people who are codependent can work out thier issues if they still love eachother...?
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