Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
1. Swimming
2. Talking to a good friend on the phone
3. Seeing a new movie playing in theatres
4. Eating out at a restaurant with family or friends
5. Planning a trip (not necessarily taking one just imagining all the things I could do IF I went to a particular place or finding out the history of that place)
6. Reading fiction
7. Praying/Meditation
8. Reading books about spirituality
9. Trying a new restaurant
10. Meeting with friend for coffee
11. Going to the beach
12. Taking a ferry ride
13. Teaching someone to swim
14. Playing on the swings
15. Cooking a new dish in a new cuisine
16. Baking chocolate chip cookies - so I can eat them while they're warm and gooey.
17. Shopping for a new outfit
18. Wandering around the bookstore
19. Drinking hot chocolate at a coffee shop, even by myself
20. Calling my sister
21. Watching my favorite movie
22. Singing
23. Visiting a new park I havent been to before
24. Journaling
25. Writing music or poetry
After reading luvethtsun - I like bowling too! I should have added that. :-)
Watching sunset
Lucid dreaming
Meditation
Travelling
Writing stories
Playing guitar
Going to see live music
Five star hotel breaks
Vegetarian Cooking
Swimming in the sea
Reading classics, Jules Verne, HG Wells etc
Driving quality cars
Cleaning and maintaining my car
Spa days, sauna, pool and hot tub
Laughing out loud with friends
DIY
Making handmade gifts/cards
Snorkelling
Foraging for wild teas
Visiting museums
Restaurants with family and friends
Walking in circles. I do not like to walk back the way I came
Summer BBQ
Studying
Volunteering
Things I would like to try: I would like to go to space!
I love to...
1) jog in the nature
2) Walks through the nature and filling my lungs with fresh air
3) To read and extend my horizon
4) spending time with my dear mother
5) cook with fresh ingridients
6) Comedy with funny jokes
7) going to the movies for a good film
8) horses, i like horseback riding or just watching them running in the fields
9) girlschats , especially with my mom and sister
10) Wellness and Beauty
11) Meditation
12) Yoga
13) going for an icecream
14) dancing
15) singing my favorite songs
16) beach
17) travel
18) combining clothes in new outfits and dress up
19) playing loud Music while I am driving in my car (but i turn it down at every stop because i feel stupid )
20) documentaries
21) hot chocolate, coffee, tea
22) meeting new people
23) writing
24) eating in a nice restaurant with friends
25) eating chocolate, cake cookies and gummies
One other thing I love is ICE CREAM! Any time, any flavour! Yum!
1. Walking while listening to my headphones
2. Going out to eat at new places
3. Cooking/trying new recipes
4. Watching foreign films
5. Cleaning/organizing (always makes me feel good)
6. Coloring with my three year old daughter
7. Taking drives on a nice sunny day
8. Weekend day trips
9. Spending time with my daughter in general
10. Watching old episodes of "curb your enthusiasm"
11. Going to NYC for the day with no agenda
12. Finding new crafty things to make on Pinterest
13. Chit chatting on the phone with friends
14. Sitting on my patio on a summer night
15. Hosting dinner at my house
16. Outdoor concerts
17. Pedicures
18. Campfires
19. Laughing
20. Dancing when I'm alone
21. Researching natural remedies
22. Winter sunsets
23. Massages
24. Getting a good nights sleep
25. Reading self help books
1 Swimming. it is fitness + meditation + accomplishment
2 Traveling. I am grateful that, of places that would be "if I could only see it in my lifetime" for many people, I have been to several
3 Playing hide-and-seek with my loving, barky dog
4 Finding the answer to a difficult question.
5 Going to a bar/restaurant where the staff know me.
6 Receiving positive surprises
7 Riding my bike
8 Going back to London
9 Making risotto
10 Reconnecting with an old friend
11 Listening to music with a good back-beat
12 Singing karaoke (I do a great Jason Mraz)
13 Learning something new
14 Racing in a triathlon/marathon and reading the funny signs
15 Feeling at ease
16 Laughing so hard that my eyes tear up
17 Pushing myself to a new level
18 Watching fireworks
19 Surprising someone from another culture when I can say "thank you" in their language
20 Feeling the sun shine down on me
21 Supporting my friends on DS and recognizing that I'm not alone
22 Learning new trivia (you do not want to play against me in trivial pursuit)
23 Texting (sad but true)
24 Understanding human behavior
25 Going to sleep feeling like I've made the most out of my day
1.Making babies/young kids laugh or smile-makes me feel like they know I am a good soul
2. Laughing so hard my stomach hurts and I can't breathe-making others laugh
3. Helping other people; just because and unexpectedly
4. Listening to music live....it's my church
5. Being at the beach and jumping in the ocean when it's sunset
6. Hiking to the top and seeing really far horizons
7. Writing as it's my only clear method of communication (thank you delete button)
8. Going on a road trip with no particular destination and the music is LOUD in the car
9. Giving and getting a good hug
10. A day of pampering; massage, facial, mani/pedi, ayurvedic medicine, acupuncture.....
11. A perfectly smooth and warm cup of Joe in a big mug to warm my hands
12. Mixing patterns in my outfits
13. A quiet mind, when it happens......I'll admit it's kind of like the Yedi it definitely eludes me alot
14. Redecorating my apartment, transforming my space
15. Camping from the desert to the redwood, and being able to pitch the tent by myself (I will admit I do like having the help tho)
16. Falling and being in love
17. Giving my mom anything and everything, it's the least I can do for her allowing me to be here.......
18. Clean sheets on the bed, snuggled with my black hairy baby Oliver who spoons me and then licks my ear.....then when he falls asleep snores
19. Going against the grain of society and conformity
20. Facing fear and kicking it in its righteous ass
21. Waking up, there have been some days when I didn't like it but now I realize what a gift it is
22. Clarity and sobriety no matter how hard it can feel at times
23. Long conversations with family and friends that inspire, uplift, and motivate
24. Feeling complete on a challenging situation and relationship
25. Having that deep sense of knowing that the universe is taking care of me and the journey I am on, with an AMOR FATI philosophy.
Love all of your favorite things CoDa! Clarity and sobriety is awesome... adding that one to my list too!