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so i received a call today from the mom of my ex fiance recovering addict. it's been a while since i heard from them. about 6 months ago since the last time i talked to them. she said she misses me.. and the sister of my ex talked to me to asking how i am doing. it was a 5 minute phone call.. i got excited for some time.. but after a few minutes after the call the inner parrot in me is grounding me " so what now..you can not expect that good things will follow..."
honestly, i dont want to be enslaved by my optimism with the addict.. but i do miss him still. and what's weird is that there's still a bit of anger in my heart...
honestly, i dont want to be enslaved by my optimism with the addict.. but i do miss him still. and what's weird is that there's still a bit of anger in my heart...
In fact I am much closer today to her family then I am to my own family of origin.
Even my ex wife was cool as she and I were high school sweet hearts and we had troubles in our marriage which were out of control and it was a very sad ending but none of us stayed angry.
Being enslaved by optimism does not happen with me, and instead I really do like the way of = Hope for the best while expecting the worse to happen.
You can be friends with his family without getting back with him.