Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Well, the struggles of my teens(2) drug use has worn me down. I removed my daughter from my house on 1/1/2015. For sons(16) use progressed to a daily basis. The symptoms are all there: lying, isolating, anger and his world getting smaller. He can't wait for me to go to a meeting or leave the house so he can enjoy his pot.
I was doing well with detachment, but the last three days have overwelmed me. I feel sad, then angry, then fear, then lose faith and then lose hope. Not a comfortable spot to be in. Started attended an Alanon meeting which I really enjoy and continue with my AA meetings. The head and heart have a disconnect at the moment. Just wanted to share what was going on. Thanks for listen.
I was doing well with detachment, but the last three days have overwelmed me. I feel sad, then angry, then fear, then lose faith and then lose hope. Not a comfortable spot to be in. Started attended an Alanon meeting which I really enjoy and continue with my AA meetings. The head and heart have a disconnect at the moment. Just wanted to share what was going on. Thanks for listen.
I am an alcoholic and my mom had to go to Alanon, I would highly suggest you take that on as a support for yourself as your behaviors can and will exacerbate the situation. Having the support and finding others who are struggling like you will build you up to make some very challenging choices.....but they are necessary to save your kids lives.
Also a mother's prayers can work WONDERS! So see both of your children in protective green light and pray for them to find themselves again to help steer them in the right direction......it can work ;)
Take care of you!! XXOO