Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
I'm in a relationship with an addict that is trying to quit. I am tired of being second to his drug of choice and second to his struggle to quit. I know he can't be there for me...he's in pain and it's taking all the strength he can find to be there for himself. So I'm here looking for an outlet for myself. I want to make sure I'm taking care of myself somehow. So, hi.
You say you are in a relationship... when will you hit the wall and reach the "enough is enough" point?
I see it as praiseworthy that you are trying to keep your relationship and trying to help stop the addiction.
Some people always see the only solution is to break-up the relationship and that is not the healthy way when there are other options.
Welcome here to this group.