Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...

What worked for me is rather the opposite.
I confess my self to be a sinner, in that my true self is sinful.
It sounds like a Christian cliche' but it works and it is so true.
My true self is not loving or kind or considerate of others.
My recovery required that I learned how to be polite and friendly and to be a nice person, and yet some times my true self pops out and I have to stop it because my true self is a troubled soul.
I find that we have to choose to love and choose to be loving - because it does not come naturally - IMO.