The girl I want is seeing another guy every Saturday. I have anxiety attacks and get freaked out about it. What can I do besides getting drunk or loaded to stop from making myself sick? He spends the night and staying till Sunday. When I know she is having sex with someone else I have trouble dealing with it. We have had a friends/lovers relationship but have never really been a couple. We sometimes refer to each other as "my husband" or "my wife". I know I have a co-dependency problem with her. I just don't know how to stop. Also, her daughter and I are close and I don't want to lose that. It's just that every weekend is so hard. Thanks for any advice you give.
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