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Noticing something lately .. I promise myself lot of things... Eventually i break or change them with one reason or other. I seem to be very flexible with my plans looks like
1. May be to do with the impulse at that instant when i am making promises.
2. Other factors may add and change my decision.
3. As time passes there is more leniency .
4. Procrastination
5. Flexibility
Some of the promises are complete 180 degrees turn to the decision/promise i make.
Is this self respect issue?
Does anybody have this issue? What did or would you do to get over this?
1. May be to do with the impulse at that instant when i am making promises.
2. Other factors may add and change my decision.
3. As time passes there is more leniency .
4. Procrastination
5. Flexibility
Some of the promises are complete 180 degrees turn to the decision/promise i make.
Is this self respect issue?
Does anybody have this issue? What did or would you do to get over this?
I have this issue sometimes, too. I procrastinate on things for self that I do not for others. At least for me, I think it is about valuing myself equally with others. I don't think :I still have the "Love others as thyself" down, yet.
I am working on it, baby steps. By that I mean, I will sometimes literally set a timer and work on something for myself, for 15 minutes, so at least do something toward my goals. The big goals (I guess because I am reporting externally) such as classwork, is not the problem. But the small things, just for me, I tend to overlook, even though I want them for myself.
Hugs,
Shar