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seems like a hot topic on here. let me tell u about my sister and maybe she fits in
talks about how she is so in touch with herself
talks about her kids and grandkids all the time even when others are not and we all have them
dresses very revealing all the time and says if u have it flant it
flirts with her best friends husband and seems to prefere them over the female friend and get mad if anyone says anything about it.
uncomfortable in situations that she is not the center of attention
know what everyone else should do and if confronted with another view gets mad
uncomfortable at others homes unless drunk and then loves everyone or wants to argue if all dont agree with her
walks for exercise downtown dresses in revealing clothes and waves at all and then talks about how some one said she looks HOT
gets drunk and talks about our sister with cancer and cries and gets mad if others dont comfort her. even in the face of no compassion for others. if she is partying dont bring up things that are upsetting. gets mad and says that others are ruining the party
and says that before going anywhere she makes one less look to make sure she looks HOT
could never be in public without her makeup and makes fun of others that do this
her son was in iraq and threw parties for him and wants everyone to praise him, while my son was in the service also and no mention of him
gets mad at me for not wanting to do exactly what she has planned- no well lets plan something together and at what time is best for all. its 5 pm and she is going and if you dont go then well then you are left ou
if says that she is going to do something she does not change her mind and does what she says but is rude to those that might run late and or dont do what she wants to do
and finally wants to write a book about her life and how insighful she is and just cant understand why everyone does not like her and kisses ass to get what she wants for the moment. like tell the work person that answers the phone and is getting upset with her many calls - how great she look and what a nice person that she is- so they will not report her.
when my grandchildern are around she is quite and seems to withdrawa from all of us and looks annoyed and stressed out an cant wait to leave so she can go get drunk with friends that dont like her flirting with their husbands.
its like i made my appearance cause i had to but cant stay long cause others are waiting on me
wow i know this is long sorry but anyone else have a similar situation?
and of course the code in me has tried to please her and feel a part of her life but she always disappoints me. and has said that i am petty and everyone know it and that i am cheap and at the same time she is the cheap one with me.
got mad at the birthday card that i got her and said that i said that i was just teasing and dont even remember what the card said?
gets mad at me if i dont go to the jewerly and sex parties that she has or rummage sales that she has cause the profits are to help her daughter who is alway off work and using the system to stay off work.
and then when my son in the airforce and his wife and beautiful daughter that is dressed up so pretty makes fun of them caus the bows are to big and his wife was the clay co queen 12 years ago.
talks about how she is so in touch with herself
talks about her kids and grandkids all the time even when others are not and we all have them
dresses very revealing all the time and says if u have it flant it
flirts with her best friends husband and seems to prefere them over the female friend and get mad if anyone says anything about it.
uncomfortable in situations that she is not the center of attention
know what everyone else should do and if confronted with another view gets mad
uncomfortable at others homes unless drunk and then loves everyone or wants to argue if all dont agree with her
walks for exercise downtown dresses in revealing clothes and waves at all and then talks about how some one said she looks HOT
gets drunk and talks about our sister with cancer and cries and gets mad if others dont comfort her. even in the face of no compassion for others. if she is partying dont bring up things that are upsetting. gets mad and says that others are ruining the party
and says that before going anywhere she makes one less look to make sure she looks HOT
could never be in public without her makeup and makes fun of others that do this
her son was in iraq and threw parties for him and wants everyone to praise him, while my son was in the service also and no mention of him
gets mad at me for not wanting to do exactly what she has planned- no well lets plan something together and at what time is best for all. its 5 pm and she is going and if you dont go then well then you are left ou
if says that she is going to do something she does not change her mind and does what she says but is rude to those that might run late and or dont do what she wants to do
and finally wants to write a book about her life and how insighful she is and just cant understand why everyone does not like her and kisses ass to get what she wants for the moment. like tell the work person that answers the phone and is getting upset with her many calls - how great she look and what a nice person that she is- so they will not report her.
when my grandchildern are around she is quite and seems to withdrawa from all of us and looks annoyed and stressed out an cant wait to leave so she can go get drunk with friends that dont like her flirting with their husbands.
its like i made my appearance cause i had to but cant stay long cause others are waiting on me
wow i know this is long sorry but anyone else have a similar situation?
and of course the code in me has tried to please her and feel a part of her life but she always disappoints me. and has said that i am petty and everyone know it and that i am cheap and at the same time she is the cheap one with me.
got mad at the birthday card that i got her and said that i said that i was just teasing and dont even remember what the card said?
gets mad at me if i dont go to the jewerly and sex parties that she has or rummage sales that she has cause the profits are to help her daughter who is alway off work and using the system to stay off work.
and then when my son in the airforce and his wife and beautiful daughter that is dressed up so pretty makes fun of them caus the bows are to big and his wife was the clay co queen 12 years ago.
Yikes if that were my sister I don't think I would want to have a relationship with her period! she really sounds messed up indeed with some insecurity issues to the max! what was she like as a kid? how about family christmas,thanksgiving, easter get togethers how dose it work at these gatherings?
My sister and I have not had much of a relationship since my dad died a year and a half ago. since then it's like she has been taking advantage of my mom so I let her know it. she also is on her 4th marriage and when she anounced they were getting married she wanted us to all be happy and act like she was just making the greatest move when she wasnt! it was a big mistake she has already left him and they just got married this summer. I just don't hve a relationship with her I could not would not be able to deal with your sister inded. (Not sure If I helped but shared my thoughts anyhow)
Majorly a narcisst lacks compassion and empathy.... they are empty, manipulative and controlling.