I just recently broke of my relationship with my partner who also has been my friend for 25 years.We went to school together and over the years tried to stay in contact with eachother.We did not become a couple until the first time was about ten years ago.Our relationship was more off then it was on.We seemed to enjoy eachothers company and had lots of laughs.But living together was pure hell at times we argued over everything.We even got physically abusive at one point.Even with all of this I still wanted to try again after we had been out of eachothers lifes for four years.This time we were together for allmost two years.There has not been any physical fighting.Just argueing and yelling and we signed a lease for a year and sense we moved into our home in June we have went down hill it seems.We both do not know when to stop spending money or get control on stopping the spending and living on a budget.She says its my fault cause she can't tell me know cause it makes her feel bad.And I feel its both our faults.I feel I am very codependant on her and feel the best thing is to walk away and live our own lives.I even wonder if being friends is feasible.Right now I am just very confused and I am trying to do what is best for me and for her.I do not hate her just feel we are no good together.Any advice? Cause until June I can not move out asked the landlord he said no on breaking the lease.My thought is how am I going to know if I can find peace and happiness unless I walk away from this relationship and try on my own without her.I am trying to be strong and keep in mind its best for both of us.Jerrie