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Hi! please i need help..
I exposed narcissist that I was dating for a few months... since then (4 days) he doesn't talk to me, and asks me not to send him messages anymore.
I am very scared that he will revenge on me.
Today, I sent him a message- to calm him down, and I said that I'm sorry, and I was wrong about saying that he is a narcissist, and that I'm not a therapist to diagnose things like this.....
Then I told him that I miss him.... and Sorry again.
he didn't respond.
I wanted to ask you if you think this was enough to calm him down and make him think that he right and he will not look for revenge and stope hate me?
Please answer me soon as possible...i Have no one to talk about it, and Im really concerned.
Thank you
yes i am in therapy , and i dont care about letting him think that his in control, because i know its not the true.
I only want to be sure that im safe , and he will not revange on me and tell people lies about me...
do you think it was enought??
BTW : sorry about my awful English...im not from usa etc....
From him. Go to therapy and call the cops if you think
He is bothering you. Just do not talk about him being
A narc to others. You can say a lot of other things than
About abuse issues.
Abuse is best discussed in only safe and healthy
Places like a therapist office or abuse survivors group
Therapy. Womens shelters/aid have a warehouse of
Knowledge And have help in place just for those
types of problems. Use their services if you are now
frightened, HUGS
but I'm ok, I'm in therapy and I will be ok
I just made one mistake: I confront him, and told him in his face that
he is a narcissist and i showed him all the things his done that
narcissists do, and show him videos about it.
after that, he was in rage, and after a day, he said he didn't want
contact with me anymore.
at first I was ok, but then I was afraid he will revenge on me...
not physical, but Im scared he will say things about me that isn't true....
He is really good at computers and know how get everything...
I just wanna be sure that what I done made him calm down?
Them publicly if they are a PD narc or socio. Its
just not smart, even in divorce unless there Are
children then it can get murky with co parenting.
He probably will not physically bother You. Just
Keep quiet about him and go No contact. Pretend
he does not exist in this world, there Is other supply
out there and you need to stop stirring his pot.
Block all his social media and his phone number.
Go to womens aid for help and support if you Need
to for advice or legal help. They excel at all that stuff,
HUGS
Best of luck! I know this feeling. Hopefully he moves on soon.
you are amazing...thank you so much <3
I applaud you for ending that relationship because your needs cannot be met from somebody who doesn't love him/herself.
The bad side is that you are in a victim place and in this position you will always attract punishment. Stop communicating with this person and send him thoughts of health and love and most importantly learn to love yourself.Narcissists can learn and you can allow them in your life only is they treat you well.