Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
OK heard from ex wife that he ( Ex Psycho) was assaulted ( fractured nose) and robbed by few people while he was assisting a woman to the car around 2am on Sunday morning in downtown .... The papers displayed him as Gentleman ... Sure that i know ( sarcasm)
I feel sorry as human being, but as a victim to this man I am laughing... Karma can be a bitch :-) I wish i could learn something from Karma and hope karma takes its path and doesn't stop just here....
I feel sorry as human being, but as a victim to this man I am laughing... Karma can be a bitch :-) I wish i could learn something from Karma and hope karma takes its path and doesn't stop just here....
even our thoughts...carry forth into the universe because they are energy. This is difficult to hear...but if we harbor anger towards those who have harmed us...we are still tied to them...in the spiritual realm. They become spiritual ties that bind us.
If we forgive, (regardless how we at first feel, even if we don't feel forgiveness but ask for help to feel forgiveness) by speaking it out loud, more little packages of energy.. eventually our feelings will follow.
We don't need to be door mats but we need to not only heal ourselves but those that harm others also need healing. We don't need to be the ones to do the healing, that is not our job...but let that be up to the universe, but we need not be a hinderance to their own healing by hoping karma bites them in the ass cause it sure will. By their healing they do less harm to others and in return they do not victimize and the cycle does not continue.
Do you kind of know what I am trying to convey? I am not saying it is easy...it is a process...but awareness is key to the process.
I believe in what u say unfortunately for this moment i let go of forgiving .... i am just human.
He is the catalyst that finally got my attention. I owe him big time in the whole scheme of things....but he is still being held accountable and I still feel real good about what he is going to get for his behavior. That is karma...but I don't harbor any ill feelings towards him because that just hurts me.
I did not mean to convey that you do not deserve your feelings. I hope I did not do that to you. People have been doing that to me. They have tried to re-victimize me like I deserved what was done to me by two men over the past couple of weeks and now these two men are good friends. Ba3965ds! That is how I really feel daystar.
I am a work in progress. And I will feel so good when he is in jail so he cannot victimize another person, let alone another woman.
So, you deserve to enjoy your feelings.
Peace
The guy in my case is going to jail where there are bigger badder dudes he is going to have to watch his star fish.
I am laughing more...