Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
went to sisters wedding party and could not wait to leave. but have been obsessing about how much she pisses me off. got to stay away and get focused on me . would have few years ago loved this type of gathering but now annoyed and don't feel a kinship or attachment to anyone there and have know most the of people there for years. asked my sister if she was ok looked like she did not feel good and said that for the last 6 months have felt bad and its all ok don't care if I look like I feel bad or not. ok well sorry I asked. she was wanting to pick a fight with me and did not bite.
my ex is still so sick in the hospital and worried about him, and wish he was ok and could love him again and things
were different. what a mess. still do love him but he is not going to ever be what he was before. he will be lucky to survive
take my son to Chicago to see if he needs another open heart, just sick with worry and don't know how I can do this again. so worried about the what happens next for him. so scared
tomorrow CF walk its been a year since my niece passed
daughter and I at odds. sick about that
its all about my attitude right. my attitude sucks. feel lost and don't fit in anywhere.
wow I am a mess that needs help
my ex is still so sick in the hospital and worried about him, and wish he was ok and could love him again and things
were different. what a mess. still do love him but he is not going to ever be what he was before. he will be lucky to survive
take my son to Chicago to see if he needs another open heart, just sick with worry and don't know how I can do this again. so worried about the what happens next for him. so scared
tomorrow CF walk its been a year since my niece passed
daughter and I at odds. sick about that
its all about my attitude right. my attitude sucks. feel lost and don't fit in anywhere.
wow I am a mess that needs help
Of course, this is a way to understand how hard it is to be with family before we have actually made some real progress in our healing journey. There simply is no way to beat them all putting us in our PROPER place in the family until a great deal of healing has occurred.
All we can really do is to stay away for the period that it takes us to get to a place of healing where we stop caring if they
>>like us
>>approve of us
>>disapprove of us
>>remain seated when ordered to do anything
>>stop believing others are better than us
>>stop believing we are better than others
These are just some basic traits of healthy non-codepedent behaviors. Once these are part of your psyche, what the family does really will not matter.