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co dependency with guys

scenequeen
scenequeen
i just broke up with the love of my life 11 days ago and i am so heart broken..i ended up overdosing and being hospitilized and i am so scared i wont get over him...any advice?
deleted_user
deleted_user
I would suggest therapy/counseling. It sounds like you don't think very highly of yourself-low self-esteem. Keep reminding yourself WHY you broke up with him. Your life WILL be better now-you've take a difficult step to make your life better for you. Be proud that you were a strong enough woman to take charge like that. You'll be ok.
deleted_user
deleted_user
hun, you are not alone.. i feel like i'm very dependent on having a guy in my life... and even though he may be wrong for me or right for me, i still feel like if i lose him, my life is over. i know how you feel and you are not alone.

stay strong, have faith. you took the step to break up with him, that shows courage and strength.. keep powering through..
deleted_user
deleted_user
find a really good therapist and get to know YOU! then you will find the answers you seek.
((((((((hugs)))))))))
deleted_user
deleted_user
Maybe addressing your chemical dependency would help to....Get to a meeting to help address those issues...its gets worse never better...
hugs
james
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