Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
It's sooo tough to leave an ex because it wasn't working, but you feel so alone and desperate for some love that you find yourself clinging to the idea that you might just work it out. my ex wasnt a bad person but his father was murdered when he was 17 and he never went to the funeral or the court and spent the next 10 yrs of life partying hard and never feeling. But I've just done the total codependent thing...I've told you about him and not me. He didn't love me right, put me down, never told me i looked nice etc,,,and i felt totally neglected and needy...so, why am i left wanting? and trying to avoid me? This unloveable person?
"my ex wasnt a bad person" - He has no feelings.. so?
Have you ever looked into mirror and say to yourself how beautiful you are ? Have you ever looked at yourself as an individual who is complete and can take care of your needs and wants and if there is anything you want from others has it ever communicated? when communicated were you ready to receive?
One day he will change is the hope that keeps you holding to the unavailable also the little child craving for that love that can be received from you is ignored making you look outside yourself. Not to forget the drama of trying to get your needs met through some one else itself gives you thrill because that is what you are used to since childhood.
Trust me been there done that.. When you think you are with an unavailable partner its time for you to get out of the relationship.. It will only bring craziness to the relationship.