Codependency Support Group
Codependency is defined as someone who exhibits too much, and often inappropriate, caring for another person's struggles. A codependent person may try to change, or feel shame about their most private thoughts and feelings if they conflict with the other person's struggles. If you are on a journey towards self-love, this support group is for you. Join us and find others...
Hey, today after speaking with my family and my sister (drama), I have been struggling with fighting the urge on giving unwanted advice. I want to text, post, write letters, all to justify me trying to give advice. I need to let it goooo, but its hard...
Try to self focus only, stay on your side of
The street, in your own hula hoop.
you can learn about self love, self acceptance,
Self awareness, stopping perfectionism, no
More controlling and fixing. Stop being a care
Taker to adults, good healthy strong boundaries.
Eventually after working hard on yourself in coda/
Alanon and Working the steps Good things begin
to happen Like peace and serenity and contentment.
HUGS
I also take a deep breath and ask myself "why do I *need* to give them advice?"
Between these two thoughts I manage to avoid getting into other people's garbage pits.