Some of them asked me for self help books. Here is the list i have read and keep reading again and again.

My words of Wisdom - Know that collecting information and reading self help books is not recovery ... Books are for Knowledge .. Applying knowledge you attained in the books in your day today life is real recovery...

My favorites
1. Codependency for dummies by Darlene lancer
2. Codependent no more by Melody Beattie
3. Language of letting go by Melody beattie
4. Big Red Adult child of Alcoholic and/or Dysfunctional family
5. What to say when you talk to your self by Dr shad Helmstetter
6. Getting the love you want by Harville Hendrix
7. Self Compassion by Kristen Neff
8. Dont Panic by Reid Wilson
9. Woman who love too much by Robin Norwood
10. Emotional Sobriety by Tian Dayton


Everything on my Kindle


1. Who's Pulling Your Strings?: How to Break the Cycle of Manipulation and Regain Control of Your Life - Braiker
2. The Complete ACOA Sourcebook: Adult Children of Alcoholics at Home, at Work and in Love Janet Woititz and RobertAckerman
3. Spiritual Makeover: Ten Practices for Falling in Love with Your Life Sirah Vettese
4. When I Say No, I Feel Guilty Manuel J Smith
5. Assertiveness: How to Stand Up for Yourself and Still Win the Respect of Others Judy Murphy
6. What To Say When You Talk To Your Self Dr. Shad Helmstetter
7. Breaking the Habit of Being Yourself: How to Lose Your Mind and Create a New One Joe Dispenza
8. You Can Heal Your Life Louise Hay
9. Why Me? Help for Victims of Child Sexual Abuse (Even if they are adults now) Lynn Daugherty
10. Playing It by Heart Melody Beattie
11. Trauma and Recovery: The Aftermath of Violence--from Domestic Abuse to Political Terror Judith Herman
12. The Gift of Fear Gavin de Backer
13. Beyond Denial -- Why Addicts Relapse Pattrick Caffrey
14. Don't Panic Third Edition Reid Wilson
15. The Little Black Book of Big Red Flags: Relationship Warning Signs You Totally Spotted . . . But Chose to Ignore - Natasha Burton
16. For a Future to Be Possible: Buddhist Ethics for Everyday Life Thich Nhat Hanh
17. The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success Deepak Chopra
18. The New Codependency Melody Beattie
19. Affirmations for the Inner Child Rokelle Lerner
20. Beyond Codependency Melody Beattie
21. Getting the Love You Want, 20th Anniversary Edition: A Guide for Couples - Harville Hendrix
22. Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships Henry Cloud and John Townsend
23. From Ex to Next! - An Empowered Woman's Guide to Dating Again Kim Hess and Michael masters
24. Reconciliation: Healing the Inner Child - Thich Nhat Hanh
25. 52 Weeks of Conscious Contact Melody Beattie
26. Choices - Melody Beattie
27. The Bully in Your Relationship Anne-Renee Testa
28. Emotional Sobriety: From Relationship Trauma to Resilience and Balance Tian Dayton
29. 7 Ahas Of Highly Enlightened Souls Mike George
30. The Power of Now Eckhart Tolle
31. Guilty No More Patricia Krohn and Sandra Black
32. Codependency Recovery: Wounded Souls Dancing in The Light Robert Burney
33. Codependence: The Dance of Wounded Souls "A Cosmic Perspective of Codependence and the Human Condition- Robert Burney
34. How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get Involved Sandra Brown
35. Love Is a Choice Dr. Robert Hemfelt
36. Make Miracles in Forty Days Melody Beattie
37. The Happiness Trap: A guide to ACT: the mindfulness-based program for reducing stress, overcoming fear, and creating a rich and meaningful life Russ Harris and Steven Hayes
38. In Sheep's Clothing: Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People George K Simon
39. Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No Henry cloud and John Townsend
40. Toxic Men: 10 Ways to Identify, Deal with, and Heal from the Men Who Make Your Life Miserable Glass Lilian
41. The Language of Letting Go Melody Beattie
42. Codependent No More Melody Beattie
43. Getting Past Your Breakup Susan J Elliot
44. Ten Keys to Staying Empowered in a Power Struggle - Kimberly key
45. Five Steps to Romantic Love: A Workbook for Readers of Love Busters and His Needs, Her Needs - Willard F Harley
46. Love Busters: Overcoming Habits That Destroy Romantic Love - Willard F Harley
47. His Needs, Her Needs - Willard F Harley
48. Worthy of Love Karen Casey
49. Women Who Love Too Much Robin Norwood
50. The Power of Compassion: Stories That Open the Heart, Heal the Soul, and Change the World - Pamela Bloom
51. A Career Girl's Guide to Becoming a Stepmom Jacquelyn B Fletcher
52. The Big Questions: How to Find Your Own Answers to Life's Essential Mysteries
53. Self-Esteem Affirmations by Louise L. Hay
54. Reclaiming your Inner child.
55. Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom Christine Northrup
56. Self-Compassion: Stop Beating Yourself Up and Leave Insecurity Behind Kristen Neff
57. Taking Action: Working Through Procrastination and Achieving Your Goals Jay Earley
58. Thawing Adult/Child Syndrome and other Codependent Patterns - Don Carter
59. The Journey Home
60. Thawing Childhood Abandonment Issue Don carter
61. Thaw - Freedom from Frozen Feelings Don Carter
62. Explosive Reasoning: A Mindset to Live By Ryan Baldridge
63. The Single Woman's Sassy Survival Guide: Letting Go and Moving On - Mandy Hale
64. Emotional Health: The Secret for Freedom from Drama, Trauma, & Pain Michael David Lawrience
65. Self-Therapy for Your Inner Critic Jay Early
66. Beyond Good and Evil Freidrich Wilhelm
67. Common Sense Thomas Paine
68. Ethics - Aristotle
69. Not Like My Mother:Becoming a sane parent after growing up in a CRAZY family by Irene Tomkinson, MSW
70. Heartwounds: The Impact of Unresolved Trauma and Grief on Relationships Tian Dayton
71. Overcoming Fear: 101 Best Ways to Overcome Fear and Anxiety and Take Control of Your Life Today! - Lucas McCain
72. The Fabric of the Future: Women Visionaries Illuminate the Path to Tomorrow M.J Ryan
73. Drama Games: Techniques for Self-Development Tian Dayton
74. It's Not What You've Got Wayne Dyer
75. No Excuses Wayne Dyer
76. Incredible You! 10 Ways to let your greatness shine through Dr Wayne Dyer
77. When to Speak Up and When To Shut Up Michael D sedler
78. The Intimacy Factor Pia Melody
79. Dignity Rocks!: I Feel Like Nobody When... I Feel Like Somebody When (Happy About) Stephanie Heuer
80. I Am: Why Two Little Words Mean So Much Wayne Dyer
81. Self-Therapy A Step-By-Step Guide to Creating Wholeness and Healing Your Inner Child Using IFS, A New, Cutting-Edge Psychotherapy Jay Earley
82. Codependency For Dummies Darlene Lancer
83. The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond Patricia Evans
84. Attract Abundance Now: with EFT and the Law of Attraction Carol Look
85. Stop Being Mean to Yourself Melody Beattie
86. How to build self confidence: 52 ways to become more self confident, improve your self esteem, and believe in yourself Steven Fisher
87. Losing Control, Finding Serenity: How the Need to Control Hurts Us and How to Let It Go Daniel Miller
88. 49 Powerful Ways To Show Your Love: Today and Everyday Michael Cercone
89. Be Assertive: The How-To Guide Elizabeth Janice