Cleft Lip / Palate Support Group
Cleft is a congenital deformity caused by a failure in facial development during gestation. It can be treated with surgery shortly after birth with highly successful results. Cleft occurs in somewhere between one in 600 and one in 800 births. Cleft occurs in several severities and is divided in two major categories: cleft lip and cleft palate.
However if you really think it can improve your life situation, why don't you apply for an appointment with a surgeon specialized in adult clefts ?
Mine is kinda redish as well, Idon't know, did you try some styles to make it less noticeable (or to divert people's attention away from the cleft ?)