insecure ... please check back with us from time to time to let us know how you are. Take extra good care of yourself. Blessings to you!

Oftentimes, people who are staunch activists are trying to fix the problems on the outside of themselves...when they feel they cannot fix the problems inside of themselves.

This creates a further vacuum inside that individual...one that cannot be filled...when the child grew up starving for love, affection, and care.

What you need is someone to show you the same passion about compassion as you try to show others in your community.

Leaving us is not going to solve your problem.

Leaving us is another form of self punishment.

You don't feel worthy of our love (or anyone else's, probably...including your own), so you approach people in hopes they can/will/may offer you some love...and when they do...you reject it.

What better form of torture than to go to a restaurant window, while starving to death, and watch people eat.

You stand at the brink of having someone love you; but your Detached Protector won't let you partake.

Depending on who's in charge, inside of you, you'll either cry, or get mad about this.

I'm sorry to give you shock treatment so early on a Saturday morning...but, I've seen this behavior before in myself.

It's taken me years to get out of that modality. I'm not going back if I can help it...

I don't know what you say
i'm sorry if i said the wrong thing and patronised you into being angry with us

i just wanted to help and i wanted you to be happy

I apologize too because it sounds if I upset you insecure. That was not my intention at all.
I have grown to care very much for you. Please do take care of youself.
((((hugs))))

and Tigerpaws...I do that too

Bye. I wish you a good life.

I'm sorry it's taken me so long to respond. I've been trying to think of what to say that will respect your decision and at the same time encourage you to stay. We'll miss you very much and you're always our friend and welcome here. Hugs