I am sure we all have those feelings at times. Insecure hope you know that you shine bright too. I have to tell myself that all the time. Surround yourself with your friends, and let them help you. That is what DS is for, support. I always try to never hurt anybody on here, but that is me. My thoughts.

im sorry you are hurting...... if i can help ease that hurt, even just a little..... please let me know xx

I am sorry you feel rejected. I am also sorry I have neglected our friendship. I have started a new job and I am struggling with perpetual exhaustion right now so i seem not to have time to give as i would like but i think of you often and love you alot as do all your friends here

big hugs x

Know how you feel. Hope you feel better, Ian.

We can't be everywhere at once...unlike somebody I know.

But, keep talking to us...and keep talking back to the pain in your life.

I am sorry I haven't been here for you as much as you need. I have been distracted by my neck procedure. I am here for you insecure and do care for you very much.
Love & hugs

I too am sorry if I haven't been there for you. I've been struggling with my own stuff, but that's no excuse. Sharing and supporting each other on Clarity is a huge part of my recovery. I'm sending you really good vibes, and am always here if you want to talk privately. Lots of hugs.

I'm not looking for "Apologies" I'm trying to hold on with certain situations and was looking for some input. I realize we're all battling one thing or another, but when all those hrs. passed and no one responded I just felt like one of my earlier post, "Last One Standing"!Blessings to all!

I am not sure how to give input to this post because nothing was asked as far as I can tell... it feels more like you are trying to say we let you down or was not there for you. We are all here as much as we can be.
Maybe you are right, you are insecure. I would be lying if i tried to say I have never felt ignored or abandoned or simple "not liked" by people out of my own insecurities.
We all feel that way sometimes, but we do care about you. =)
(((hug)))

i'm not looking for apples but sometimes i get them
i don't know how it happens
i head down the supermarket, purse clutched in my hand
list in my pocket
'loo roll, bananas and a newspaper'
next thing i know i am in the queue holding aloft a great bag of apples

how does it happen?
i couldn't tell you but
the funny thing is i enjoy them anyway

love to all xxx

I feel the same way insecure. If i dont get replies from enough people i feel like im over posting & so i stop posting. If that makes any sense.

Im insecure in my life too. My self esteem is in the gutter. I think im rambling here.

Love ya
Cathy

Insecure.........

I just need to say this.. and please don't take it the wrong way, because I feel like I speak for others....... this group...... is a wonderful group........ I haven't been here as much as I want to be..... because of my ' own real life stuff'........... I understand that when you post, and don't get the responses you would like that it hurts.......... but please just know that I......... we......... care about you and everyone here........ we can be here when we can......... I do the best I can....... I have been on DS for a long time... and I hope that I have been supportive to my friends like they have been to me..... but I also understand that each of us have our own issues and struggles we deal with... so I really try not to take it personally if I hug someone and don't get hugged back........ or if I write a journal and don't get many comments..... because I know that my friends care about me... and that's enough for me....

this group is a great group..... with the kindest people I know....... and you are one of those......... I am sorry you feel like you aren't getting the support you need......... I am sending you a big hug....... and just be partient, okay? we all do our best....... that I know for sure........

we are a family here............

hugs and love..........

Gaye