Jan this forum is not necessarily the right place for everyone. It is a place to share, look for answers and make connections. It's not a doctor, not a pm clinic, and not a place to get professional help. The rules exist for a reason.

This is a privately owned site that we all have access to -- as long as we follow their rules. DS asks that members report posts that violate the rules and then they investigate.

This post hurt others and to me that violates the most important rule "I promise to be nice".

Tigg2, didn't mean to offend. I know the rules are there for a reason. We're all vulnerable enough without having to feel attacked, I know. I just feel sorry for the man.

Jancam
My best friend has a brain injury (from a car accident) and is super intelligent but she does not behave like Madman......................
he gave himself the right name and IMO he needs to either modify his behaviour OR find another place where he can vent like this without causing hurt to others.

Jan I think I take more offense because he is obviously an intelligent person. But he is trying to shock and outrage others. For all of us this is a safe haven in the midst of horrid pain. To come here and be yelled at is not productive. The funny part is that I agree with some of what he says but not with the way he says it.

I think I'm personalizing him a little. My deceased ( no condolences necessary, I have a wonderful husband now) husbands last conscious act was to physically assault the medical personnel trying to help him because he had suffered a head/brain injury.

in chat with him. Asked why he is in the cp forum. why if he doesnt want support, and doesnt want to give it, why is he here.
response:

madman:
when one seeks to unearth a rare gem, one must first do a touch o'blasting. I may be censored but not forgotton.

kate:
so...you want to be our martyr? spokesperson?

you guys are all so right.
hugs to friends xxx