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Shlay
So, there is this new Mom and Pop place a few houses down from my apt and it has the best homemade food! I am in here at least once a month. I got to talking with the owner today and said I love to cook and I'd love to work there.
He said once he gets more income he will keep me in mind. This would be perfect because he pays under the table, so it wouldn't mess with my disability claim, or my housing support. It would just be a little more income, seeing as I only get $80 every two weeks to live on. I just couldn't do a full time job, so working here wouldn't support me and all my needs, so I still need help with housing, food and such.
My worry is that last time I worked and went to go to school at the same time I ended up trying to kill myself. I'm scared of the pain of working, I'm scared that my body won't be able to handle it, along with my mind. But this isn't like a corporation, so working there wouldn't be as stressful- I hope.
Any advice?
He said once he gets more income he will keep me in mind. This would be perfect because he pays under the table, so it wouldn't mess with my disability claim, or my housing support. It would just be a little more income, seeing as I only get $80 every two weeks to live on. I just couldn't do a full time job, so working here wouldn't support me and all my needs, so I still need help with housing, food and such.
My worry is that last time I worked and went to go to school at the same time I ended up trying to kill myself. I'm scared of the pain of working, I'm scared that my body won't be able to handle it, along with my mind. But this isn't like a corporation, so working there wouldn't be as stressful- I hope.
Any advice?
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It could be a happy thing for you. Something that brings joy to you and others.
it is probably almost as stressful as surgery.
i guess it depends on how much you expect to earn from disability. since i started working at 15, i expect to be doing pretty fine if i get it. if you don't have a lot of credits, can afford to risk not getting it, or don't care if you get caught then go for it.
cooking at home is totally different than cooking ala carte in a restaurant. it's all about a sense of urgency, your own speed and skills, understanding time tables and trying to beat the clock. heavy lifting and more standing than i'll even bother to tell you about are required at most places.
see my avi. that's me cooking paella in a giant pan from from spain over a fire pit i dug in the ground. takes two strong men to lift it off fire when it's done. i know that's not what you're going to be up to, but cooking is not an easy way to make a living.
just wanted you to know honestly what you could be getting into.
that said, ask if you can try a shift there for free, that's what a lot of chefs do to find out if they really would enjoy a certain job.
you'll know at the end of one shift if you can do it or if you want to.
the disability thing seems kinda foolish to mess with, but you get to make that decision. with your income, can you get food stamps. i just did and they're helping a ton.
good luck!
my bad.
If your on disability for either CP or BP have you checked into the ability of being able to get grants or scholarships legally to go to school?
Sorry I didn't see your 2nd post...if you can't cook at home because of pain how do you think you'll be able to cook in a restaraunt setting? That's just setting yourself up to fail, and that's never a good thing.
I realize that you want more than anything to get your life back, perhaps you can think of some type of volunteer job that you could do, that would make you feel more "out in the world"?
Kat
Try a free shift every once in awhile (or a paid one) You need to go really slowly and ease back into working. FOr both the mind and the body. I have been there, I get it.
Hugs honey, sorry if that is not what you wanted to hear, I needed to be honest about this. I was there.
Kallie.