Lets make it better. I know there are people who are in pain. Sometimes the pain is so bad, that anger, depression comes in. I've been there. When I get angry I do not take it out on others. That is when I go to bed and don't get on. Some have said things to hurt other people i know. But we must forgive them. If someone says something hurtful to me. I would just take it, then ignore it and move on. It doesn't help other people when fighting happens. We are here to help people, be there for each other. I agree. Angela

hi jancam,
I am here for you , do you need to talk. I will listen and help anyway I can . I agree with you angela, I hope your having a low pain day . good wishes and big hugs isabee

JC.....you were one of the few here that "got it" with whatever I said.
I just popped in to see if anything had changed from months ago when I'd been a "member" only to discover, by and large it is still the same:(:(

Seems to go in cycles, this will fade in fairly short order, some people just can't see the forest for the trees and that is ever so sad.

I'd warned another lady I'd told about this site to be careful with what she said and how she said it, things could easily be misunderstood and it happened to her as well. I don't know what she did after that, we lost contact because of family issues.

I just wish everyone could actually wrap their mind about the difference between acute pain and chronic pain...they are vastly different, both bring their own challenges but chronic pain is lifelong, there is no hope of it ever ending long term..

It's easy to say forgive someone if they have hurt you but when you are in the depths of deep, unrelenting pain, forgiveness isn't an option.
Being "shot down" for being honest only makes things worse.

I left here because of being "misunderstood" to be polite and I'm so very sorry to see things are essentially the same.

Also so very sorry to see you closed your account, you were a valuable asset to this group while you were active.

Peace be with you all....

marcie

Im going to miss Jancam :(

I'm sorry to hear that as well. She always had a way of brightening my day.

If I can do anything for you JC, please let me know

She has a wonderful sense of humor. I liked her posts.

Please don't go jancam, love Susie x

I will miss JC immensely too:( Please come back hun!! I always love your sense of humor:)

I agree also I'm here for people to talk to and be here for the and I know how it feels to be sad depressed D.S is the best place to be cause know one can hurt you

Love you my Sweet Purple Slipper Wearer..... your the energy for the Sparkle Generator, and hope some time out will help you re-energize.

Your an inspiration through the challenges you face daily with illness, the experiences, love and humor you share is so greatly appreciated...

Huge Hugs n Sparkles JC... xoxoxox

I ditto what Seek said........Love you! Tonna

(((hugs)))