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Dil called this morning to make sure we would still be taking her and Gs to dr.And we did and I THANK GOD WE DID,GOD WAS WITH US.The dr couldnot believe how our gs looked we couldnot believe ourselves.He has severe allergic reaction to something we dont what it isyet its not hives or exzema.She gave 4 medications one was to calm him down he is itching so bad he is uncontrolable helaid on floor on his back twirling incircle he was going crazy.He doesnt know how to handle the way it was feeling.So the one medicine is like a seditive.He has to go to the allergist he is a urgent case.Dr asked bout dogs dil acted like she has 1 dog my dh and me got behind dil and put up 3 fingers the assistant nodded her head so we did get that through.The dr said if it is something in the home child will have to be placed in another enviroment until home is cleaned.and sourse of allergy is removed.His feet are even swollen. The way the dr looked she will be putting red flag on his case.I think God will be with us.Dil said she will give us her permission to take him to dr if shecant go.Havnt heard from son yet
edr1961
im ready and waiting for my son.My husand said he doesnt want to see our son right now and i can understand he doesnt want an arguement.Thanks for prayers i will keep you posted
edr1961
Well son picked me up and not a pleasant trip.As soon as we turned the corner my son started telling me everything we do wrong,but says he loves us some of the stuff didnt even make any sense.I tried to talk but he would almost talk down to me so i sat there with tears in my eyes and really just wanting to jump outof truck.But we made it to the dr.The dr.said gs looks so much better and he does.Thank God! My son told dr he had an appt.to see allergist on friday the dr looked at me and asked who will begoing with gs to allergist My son said he was going and the mother of the child.I looked at him and i said infront of dr"I thought i was going to go with dil" He said "No i am going with her".So I will not be with them.Im not stupid i know what they are doing they dont want me to hear what gs is allergic to.So my hands are tied.My dh has textson and asked if we can meet them there/Have not heard nothing.We took him last wk,went today,paid for medication for gs cause if not we are afraid he wont get it.I will help with my gs to the end.But dil and son asked if i can watch gs today so they can sleep.I said no not until i find out what gs is allergic to.
Paws4It
To be around our loved ones and get treated so poorly hurts worse than not being around them at all. Where is the love? Where is the respect? I am so sorry your son treated you like this today. I'm glad your gs is getting help,but sorry for you.
lindajoan
I surely would like to see you go to the allergist with your gs.
edr1961
Got response from son and dil im not going to allergist friday. told dh cant continue being hurt like this.They dont want us to know what dr says what he is allergic to.Oh howi want to go. But i haveno right.I will pick gs up once a wk my terms not theres and do what i feel what need to do.
nana58
edr, so sorry your son treated you in such a way. Also so sorry that you won't get to go to the Dr with GS. I know I seem to worry more about the gc because there is nothing I can do. I am a RN and my kids called to ask about symptoms the grands had or if they were sick they would ask what I thought. They are so full of dislike or hate for me and spite that I am not even told when the gc are sick. I suppose they call one of the nurse links for advice. I have never disliked someone to the point that I would have let my kids suffer the consequences of not asking advice.
edr1961
nana58 thanks for support,i am a nurse{lpn}retired and so ismy son that is what is so bad he knows what they are doing.My honest opinion its the 3 dogs they are german shepard size,house dogs,bathrrom outside and right back in.Dog hair all over,dil daughter has asthma,dil gs comes over and has rash also.My son was never brought up with dogs but they are dil dogs its unbelievable.I am so afraid once gs medicationgets out of system and if he is allergic to the dogs and dont remove them itsgoing to flare up and become worse gs on prednisone,atarax,and couple creams.He can not continue on this medication,he willbe3yrs old.They dont want me to go cause they know what the test is going to say.Its just heartbreaking my dh and myself are getting sick.My son talked to me itwas degrading i just dont know if i can look at him like i use to.I love him but i dont like him.So what are they hiding?
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