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Dil called this morning to make sure we would still be taking her and Gs to dr.And we did and I THANK GOD WE DID,GOD WAS WITH US.The dr couldnot believe how our gs looked we couldnot believe ourselves.He has severe allergic reaction to something we dont what it isyet its not hives or exzema.She gave 4 medications one was to calm him down he is itching so bad he is uncontrolable helaid on floor on his back twirling incircle he was going crazy.He doesnt know how to handle the way it was feeling.So the one medicine is like a seditive.He has to go to the allergist he is a urgent case.Dr asked bout dogs dil acted like she has 1 dog my dh and me got behind dil and put up 3 fingers the assistant nodded her head so we did get that through.The dr said if it is something in the home child will have to be placed in another enviroment until home is cleaned.and sourse of allergy is removed.His feet are even swollen. The way the dr looked she will be putting red flag on his case.I think God will be with us.Dil said she will give us her permission to take him to dr if shecant go.Havnt heard from son yet
Paws4It
Yes, thank God. I hope they can find what the problem is, and I do hope it's not the family pets.
sallyannlass
Now your GS is under treatment. Thank God. Blessings.
lindajoan
Praise God for this Dr appt today. So glad he will see an allergist to be tempted so the source of the problem can be found. Please keep us posted. God bless your gs.
Alana2
Excellent!
Norske1
God is indeed taking care of that little child. God loves us all but it is plain in the bible that he loves the little children. Keep us posted.
edr1961
Just a quick update,son has not contacted us yet,dil was suppose to make appt at 9am this morning with the allergist the dr he saw yesterday said this is a urgent matter we have text dil this morning she wont respond,called her she wont pick up,called son he wont pick up,called her daughter she wont pick up,gs has medicine that has to be picked at pharmacy.I told my dh we cant do much more or they will shut us out,we have prayed,cried,and asked why?My gs little feet were swollen,thedr talked more to me than to the mother she could not even remember the medicines he was taking she was crying my dh said i think she was crying due to dr saying child will have to be removed from home until the sourse of allergy is gone i think dr was meaning the dogs and dil knew that is what she is talking about.Its like what kind of parents are these people?
lindajoan
This child needs the medication and to see the allergist. Could the Dr's office they saw yesterday call them to see how your gs is doing? Dr offices often check back the next day. This way the reminder would come from another source.
Paws4It
It's the selfishness of that generation.. all the problems go back to that I'm afraid. That poor child..
whyonlychild
Your GS needs an advocate. Now that the doctor has seen him and declared it urgent, I would call the doctor as follow up and also ask if they don't take him if a court appointed advocate can help. More than likely the advocate would decide the child doesn't belong in their home and perhaps give you custody. They are going to place with relative so probably you. That way you don't look involved but are there to help.
deleted_user
Having gone through many surgeries over the past few years, I would suggest you be the squeaky wheel. Be polite and courteous but keep phoning and emailing until you get the help you need for your grandson.
edr1961
I contacted dr office and explained my concern the secretary is suppose to give info as well as my phone# and will call me when she gets done with patients.As of right now she has not called.We did finally got text from son after numerous text,calls he says he goesto dr on sept 5 i ask if it was to allergist he said he didnt know just that he goes on the 5th.I ask if gs got meds he they were not done yet i said if dil needed us to pick them up let us know.I feel if dr doesnt return my call i understand because of hippa law,but at least she is aware.Tried again to text dil to find any info out she will not return text or call.I dont trust anything the parents say.Pray for some guidness my dh and i are starting to argue over this our hands are tied wehave done all we can do.
lindajoan
I am glad to hear that an appt has been made. It would be good for you to know if it is with an allergist. Until then, the medication should help your gs.
edr1961
we just took meds to gs,husband said gs was different boy so meds helped he took lastnight.I asked dil if i can go withher to allergist on sept 5 she said yes,and text son asked if i cago with him when he takes him back to dermatologist on wed sept 3 waiting for answer.keep you posted
lindajoan
All good news!
edr1961
I called dr office this morning and told them gs recieved his medication,and got his appt for allergist.My son will be taking gs back to dermatologist on wed sept 3 i text him and asked him if i can go with him because he was going by himself i dont think he liked it but to bad he said " thats fine".nothing else said.And my dil is taking him on sept 5,and i asked her if i can ride with her and she "either way".I am really just about done with these so called parents.My dh told me when he took meds to the door yesterday dil daughter answered door he asked to speak to her the girl told dh" my mom doesnt want to talk to anyone" very rude he said.DH told me they have really hurt his feelings,after all wehave done he said its like they are spitting inour face.We only want them to take care of our gs,once we find out what his allergies are and to make sure they do the right thing i may cut the strings except for gs wewill pick him up once a week and be happy with him.We are tired and cant take much more.
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