Children of Parents with PD Community Group
My Mom has PD and I am her sole caregiver. I am here seeking support, advice, new treatment options, information and I thought this might help all of us "kids" who are looking to help their parent and themselves as this is a joint journey to some extent.
As glad as I was to see your post, thereby starting up some activity in this group (I hope), I was sad to read your post's contents. Unfortunately, it appears to be a part of the cognitive impairment that often accompanies PD and may even be, as we previously discussed, PD Dementia (PDD), unfortunately.
Although I haven't been able to totally figure it out yet, the confusion seems most prevalent at the end of my mother's "off" period with Sinemet and within the first 30 minutes of taking it. Her new PD neurologist recently added Mirapex-ER to her drug therapy and, so far, it's really helping to prevent the sharp "on" and "off" periods, according to both parents. I'm not currently visiting them but I can tell a difference in my mother's voice on the phone. Her thinking is sharper and her voice is clearer and, so far, no "babble."
A note about Mirapex-ER: Apparently, it really disagreed with my mother when she first tried it a couple of months ago. I don't know what happened, but she tried it again two weeks ago, and now it seems to be helping her. She started at 0.375 mg dosage and is thinking about increasing to the next higher dosage of 0.5 mg., which is where her new PD neurologist wants to see her.
I'm not a big proponent of "pill popping" (nor were my parents before my mother got PD), but I'm SOOOO grateful for the medications that are available today for people with PD!
SandHarbor, I'm doing soso... lots going on again including me no longer being lead teacher (not so happy about this but it's in God's timing not mine) and my kids are back to school which is good but different... and mom's health and i'm so far away... too far away to help at all with anything at this point.
Thanks again to both of you.
BT
Did your mother hit your head any of the times she fell? Did she ever have to go to the ER after falling? The usual protocol for patients 65 and older is to take a CAT scan of the head to rule out whether or not the patient hit their head. They need to rule out concussion, blood clots, etc. At the same time, they can tell if the person ever had a stroke. That's what we had done when my Dad fell the beginning of this month. But all the CAT scan showed was an aging (shrinking) brain. Sometimes the elderly can have mini strokes, too. I'm no dr., but to me it sounds like it's the Parkinson's.
I say that because my Dad has had it for 4 years, but he was always totally coherent except when meds were wrong, he was in hospital and disoriented, or he had some kind of dehydration/infection. The only cognitive problems he EVER exhibited during all these years was a kind of "brain fog" like chemo patients get--would forget what he was about to say, but would remember it later. He did forget how to write checks and balance his checkbook, so it was just easier for me to do it and then he would sign. It wasn't until around Memorial Day that the babble started.
My Dad's % of lucidity vs. confusion has flipped now since his hospitalization. It used to be he was mostly coherent, and only sometimes incoherent. Then he ended up in the hospital, where it was almost all incoherent. Then after they took away the anxiety med, he started to become more coherent, but still more incoherent than coherent.
Tough choices.
I know meds can make a mess of one's body! Hopefully things will "iron out" for your dad.
Prayers
BT
Why all the moving around? Are your parents "snowbirds"? If they can't handle the northern winters, maybe they are better off staying down south instead of staying up north?
My parents came about 2 weekends ago and I was talking to my dad about how mom was doing. He said alot of things which scared me / made me wonder. Some of the things he said were, " she's told me that she isn't sure how much longer she will be able to handle going down south" and dad also said, "when I look at her most of the time it's like "no one is home" and even if I talk to her I'll get no response sometimes".
Mom is definately failing and it's tough to see that happening which seems so quickly. Every time I see her, I see more (drastic) changes in her physically, mentally and for sure emotionally. Dad says she's getting overly sentimental and can't handle alot of noise or comotion.
She doesn't attend many family gatherings (lunch with my brother and sister in law and their family which they used to do each Sunday) any more because it's just "too much" for mom.
Dad is doing all he's able to tend to mom's needs which is great to see but he says that he's getting overwhelmed. He says that he just needs a break. I told him that I'd come up there this summer and he could go to my brothers for a few days or however long he wanted. (i have off during the summers) I can't really go down south at this point because I have too little income for such a thing. I am thinking of going down over spring break but must start saving now to do so.
Anyhow, thanks for reading and responding.
I'm a little scared now because it hasn't even been 60 days since he got out of the nursing home and I think there is some kind of minimum. This stay he may end up having to pay for himself. If he can get well and is ambulatory, Mom will be able to care for him at home once he gets out but I don't know if they will give him the time to get well.